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A Story About Working in Mexico… Not!

Posted on : May-15-2010 | By : Barbie | In : Musings & Senior Moments, Secure Border, Working in Mexico

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A must-read

“working” article

if you have already received and read the “Tom O’Malley”  email.

BP:  Anyone living in the United States has surely figured out by now, our borders MUST be secured – it’s an apparent truth, and stands on it’s own, without needing any falsehoods such as this email!

Exerpts from an email supposedly received from Tom O’Malley, who was purportedly a Director, working for S.W. BELL in Mexico City:

BP:  this email has been going around since before 2006 – basically not true – though portions may be almost accurate.

“I spent five years working in Mexico. I worked under a tourist Visa for three months and could legally renew it for three more months. After that you were working illegally. I was technically illegal for three weeks waiting on the FM3 approval.”
BP:  The company he was reportedly working for sure screwed up then.  All he needed was an FM3 with permit to work.

“During that six months our Mexican and U.S. attorneys were working to secure a permanent work visa called a ‘FM3′. It was in addition to my U.S. passport that I had to show each time I entered and left the country. Barbara’s was the same, except hers did not permit her to work.”

BP:  This guy needed 6 months and Mexican and U.S. attorneys working to get his FM3??  You’ve got to be kidding.

“To apply for the FM3, I needed to submit the following notarized originals (not copies):
1. Birth certificate for wife Barbara and me.

2. Marriage certificate.

(BP:  Only if he was bring his wife in on his FM3, as a dependent.)

3. High school transcripts and proof of graduation.

(BP:  No way are these required.)

4. College transcripts for every college I attended and proof of graduation.

(BP:  Not true.)

5. Two letters of recommendation from supervisors I had worked for at least one year.

(BP:  Tic, Tac, Toe – three falsehoods in a row.)

6. A letter from the St. Louis Chief of Police indicating that I had no arrest record in the U.S. and no outstanding warrants and, was “a citizen in good standing”.

(BP:  half true – they don’t want someone with felony convictions, etc.)

7. “Finally, I had to write a letter about myself that clearly stated why there was no Mexican citizen with my skills and why my skills were important to Mexico.  We called it our ‘I am the greatest person on Earth’ letter. It was fun to write.”

(BP:  About 1/3 true – The letter comes from the employer, stating why they want to hire this person, and how much he will be paid.  Now, if “Tom” were going to Mexico and working to start up his own personal business, he would have to write a letter stating so, and he would be applying for an FM3, with permission to start a business (permission to work).

“All of the above were in English that had to be translated into Spanish and be certified as legal translations, and our signatures notarized. It produced a folder about 1.5 inches thick with English on the left side & Spanish on the right.”

BP:  If you are filling out forms in any country – you usually need to use that language – duh!

“Once they were completed Barbara and I spent about five hours, accompanied by a Mexican attorney, touring Mexican government office locations and being photographed and fingerprinted at least three times at each location, and we remember at least four locations where we were instructed on Mexican tax, labor, housing, and criminal law and that we were required to obey their laws or face the consequences. We could not protest any of the government’s actions or we would be committing a felony. We paid out four thousand dollars in fees and bribes to complete the process. When this was done we could legally bring in our household goods that were held by U.S. Customs in Laredo, Texas. This meant we had rented furniture in Mexico while awaiting our goods. There were extensive fees involved here that the company paid.”

BP:  Oh my – so many more untruths.

“We could not buy a home and were required to rent at very high rates and under contract and compliance with Mexican law.”

BP:  Geez – wonder where “Tom” got his info – he sure didn’t read my site before taking this “job” working in Mexico!

“We were required to get a Mexican driver’s license. This was an amazing process.
The company arranged for the licensing agency to come to our headquarters location with their photography and fingerprint equipment and the laminating machine.”

BP:  Well, have no proof that this might not happen – but I cannot even imagine it happening.  First of all – your U.S. license is legal in Mexico.

“We showed our U.S. license, were photographed and fingerprinted again and issued the license instantly after paying out a six dollar fee. We did not take a written or driving test and never received instructions on the rules of the road. Our only instruction was to never give a policeman your license if stopped and asked. We were instructed to hold it against the inside window away from his grasp. If he got his hands on it you would have to pay ransom to get it back.”

BP:  Some imagination this “Tom” has – really wonder why he wanted to start working in Mexico, anyway?

“We then had to pay and file Mexican income tax annually using the number of our FM3 as our ID number. The company’s Mexican accountants did this for us and we just signed what they prepared. It was about twenty legal size pages annually.”

BP:  Hum – 20 pages – well, this guy sure made more money and had more deductions than the Parks’ family ever did, I guess.

“The FM3 was good for three years and renewable for two more after paying more fees.”

BP:  This is actually getting boring – again – not true.  Articles on my site tell all about FM3’s.

“Leaving the country meant turning in the FM3 and certifying we were leaving no debts behind and no outstanding legal affairs (warrants, tickets or liens) before our household goods were released to customs.”

BP:  Have any of you traveled between Mexico and into the United States?  If you have your passport, U.S. admits you – Mexico doesn’t even say “good-bye” to you.  Oh – other than if you have the temporary car tags, and you’ve been there on a temporary visa, then the officials must take the tag off your car.  And you do have to find that bank who will know what $15 you are trying to pay.

“It was a real adventure and if any of our Senators or Congressmen went through it once they would have a different attitude toward Mexico.”

“The Mexican government uses its vast military and police forces to keep its citizens intimidated and compliant. They never protest at their capitol or government offices, but do protest daily in front of the United States Embassy. The U.S. Embassy looks like a strongly reinforced fortress and during most protests the Mexican military surrounds the block with their men standing shoulder to shoulder in full riot gear to protect the  embassy. These protests are never shown on U.S. or Mexican TV. There is a large public park across the street where they do their protesting. Anything can cause a protest such as proposed law changes in California or Texas.”

BP:  Just not true – they happen to have t.v. in Mexico, believe it or not, and protests are usually televised.

“Please feel free to share this with everyone who thinks we are being hard on the illegals.”

BP:  This part, I agree on – sort of – Mexico does have stipulations on whom they want to live tin their country.  It’s all on my sites www.retireinluxury.com and www.moneysavingmexico.com

traffic, working in Mexico

Traffic and telephone poles

Have a good day – and don’t believe all the Pinocchio’s that are around.  It still amazes me that people have the spare time to make up writings like this about working in Mexico, and then feel the need to pass them around…I just don’t understand.BP:  Took a bit of research, but I finally found it:  Southwestern Bell International S.A. De C.V., Parque Via 190S,  06500 Ciudad De Mexico, Districto Federal, Mexico,   Telephone  01 55 5255 3530  – you can call and ask if they’ve ever even heard of this “Tom” fellow…they haven’t.

“Working” article, by Barbie.

Want a Mexico Retirement?

Posted on : Aug-12-2009 | By : Barbie | In : Best Place to Retire, Finances & Money, Health, I like the word "Cheap" - Frugal works too, Living In Mexico & Expat Stories, Musings & Senior Moments, Planning Your Retirement, Retire, Social Security

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Your retirement

may be just around the corner, or retirement may be along way off, but from this day forward it’s up to you – and no one else – to save enough money to live on happily after retirement.

As far as Social Security, the nay-sayers and dooms-dayers say it won’t be there – but, just in case it is, (and I can’t imagine any politician who values their political life not working to keep it functioning) then that will be an added bonus to make your retirement comfortable!

Ways to do it:

If your employer offers retirement savings plans

– take full advantage of them. Contributions are taken out of your pay before taxes – and the savings will earn interest, and you won’t be taxed until you – usually in retirement – take the distributions. And, believe me, in retirement, most of us have a lower income – ergo – lower tax ratio. Win-win – you saved, let it gain interest, and the taxes will be less when you receive the money. If your employer offers a matching plan – take full advantage of it! Contribute as much as is allowed. Same scenario as above paragraph, plus you double your savings!

Once you have a plan established, don’t borrow on it! You’ll find it’s almost impossible to replace the money you already saved – and you’ll be paying back interest too boot!  Keep your eyes open for penalties! If you take distributions before 59 ½, those withdrawals may have penalties!

So, try to wait until at least age 62 to retire – you’ll find health insurance can be a huge expense on your own – try to hang in there until 65. Medicare is wonderful! 

 Now, assuming you’re a bit nearer that golden year of retirement, and have already put the above plans into action, here are a few thoughts to ruminate:  Your retirement does not involve only yourself. Your spouse or partner is going to take that ride with you.

Sit downand have many discussions about your hopes, your expectations, your desires you have for the future years. Dick and I have always found a lot of easy conversation while driving and relaxing – find a comfortable setting for you, and share.

Figure out just where your income is going to come from and how much you can plan on receiving – here, a financial advisor may come in handy. Most banks have that service offered for free, but we’ve found you can get a lot of information by just getting out pencil and paper and doing some figuring!

retirement can be a great time

Pelicans on boat

By now you should have a budget figured out – see where you can cut down, where you will be able to save. Use coupons and take full advantage of sales. You’ll probably find that during retirement, you’ll have more time than money, so make a game of coupons… and don’t forget to always ask for the good old “senior discount”! Dick and I would feel really bad if we were to pay full price for almost anything anymore! 

Just for the fun of it – go though last year’s financial records. Find out just what you actually spent for the year, and see where you can cut down. Even if you have unlimited funds, you should feel very proud not to just waste money.

And what a wonderful lesson to pass on to your children!

Now, you should be in full retirement mode – but – woops – what happens a little later…when the car needs a major repair, the roof starts to leak or the plumbing gives up the ghost and needs a major rework – or maybe your washer just stops in the middle of the spin cycle, never to spin again? All those savings you’ve been able to put away will be a life saver.

Expenses don’t stop just because of retirement!

Saving for retirement article by Barbie

Retire! Get Ready, Set, then Go!

Posted on : Apr-11-2009 | By : Barbie | In : Best Place to Retire, Bring Household Items to Mexico, Buy Property, Cost of Living, Finances & Money, Geography & Places, I like the word "Cheap" - Frugal works too, Living In Mexico & Expat Stories, Musings & Senior Moments, Planning Your Retirement, Rent, Retire, Social Security

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We are all faced with many decisions when

contemplating

retirement!

Logically, and sensibly, your choices for your retirement years should be based primarily on your finances.

Do you want to do a lot of traveling? If you choose that lifestyle, then why would you start looking for a large home, with a lot of upkeep demanded?

You may decide to just stay put – perhaps near family – in the home you’ve been in for years.   Or, have the family already scattered, so you are free to move where you can really make the most of your retirement years, and just enjoy their visits ?

Some of our friends, retirees also, have felt they must have extra bedrooms and baths for the relatives who come to visit (usually once a year). Just contemplate… how much would it cost you to simply rent a motel room for them, compared to the upkeep and expense of having that extra space you’re going to pay for ??

Think of the original cost of the extra room, the extra taxes, the heating, the cooling, and just the upkeep!

You can pay for a lot of overnighters in a motel for what you will pay for that extra room that isn’t even used 95% of the time. And heading to a private motel room is usually a wonderful break – for everyone – to part at the end of the day for some private time and recuperation time!

Do you plan to do a lot of entertaining – either family or friends? Again – why get a humongous home you’ll be constantly cleaning and keeping up, when friends are just as comfortable in a more intimate setting.

Remember, you and your friends are getting older each year, and the wild parties of your 30’s and 40’s possibly are not the evenings you will be experiencing in retirement.

retirement

Street in Mexico

Keep your taxes low, keep your utility costs low, and enjoy a higher, more leisurely lifestyle like you can do if you move to Mexico.  We’ve fallen into the nicest concept…It’s called “pupu parties” … I guess it’s Hawaiian for hors d’oeuvres party. You just call a bunch of friends – they each bring a nice snack, your supply the drinks, and it’s a wonderful, easy, inexpensive and casual get together. Not too much work for anyone, and a great reason to get together with friends!

If you have a lot of equity in your home, (I always stress that hopefully by the time you are contemplating retirement, your home is paid for) and you should decide to sell it, buy smaller, have less expenses, put the profit into an investment portfolio and enjoy the interest.

Then, you may decide to just stay put – in the home you’ve been in for years.  Just realize that air conditioners eventually will need replaced and the plumbing – possibly, etc.  And if you have a lot of equity in your home, if you sell it, buy smaller, and put the profit in the bank – voila!  Interest to help with expenses, or to grow for a long desired item!

Don’t overlook renting – an apartment or a condo – everything is secure when you take those trips, and you won’t have to own a lawnmower or snowblower anymore!

Your retirement maybe be just around the corner,

or it may be along way off, but from this day forward it’s up to you – and no one else – to save enough money to live on happily after retirement.

As far as Social Security benefits, the nay-sayers and dooms-dayers say it won’t be there for long – but, if is, then it will be an added bonus!  But, long before your retirement date, you should contact your Social Security office, and get all the information you can – they can tell you when you can start drawing on Social Security, and how much you can expect to receive – invaluable information for planning your life!

Suggestions: If your employer offers retirement savings plans – take advantage of them – they are taken out of your pay before taxes – and the savings will earn interest, and you won’t be taxed until you – usually in retirement – take the distributions.  And, believe me, in retirement, most of us have a lower income – ergo – lower tax ratio.  Win-win – you saved, let it gain interest, and the taxes will be less.

If your employer offers a matching play – take full advantage of it!  Contribute as much as is allowed.  Same scenario as above paragraph, plus you double your savings!

Once you have a retirement plan established, don’t borrow on it!  You’ll find it’s almost impossible to replace the money you already saved – and you’ll be paying back interest too boot! And you may be taxed twice – when it was earned and again when you withdraw it at retirement.  Keep your eyes open for Penalties!  If you take distributions before the qualified age, those withdrawals may have penalties!  So, try to wait until at least you qualify for Social Security and their insurance to retire – you’ll find health insurance can be a huge expense on your own.

Retirement article by Barbie.

Buy A New (Used) Car and Save Money

Posted on : Dec-19-2008 | By : Barbie | In : Finances & Money, Musings & Senior Moments, Vehicle Information

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Vehicle 101

Hi Again Friends, I was looking over some of my prior newsletters, and one suggestion I had made was to purchase a good used vehicle instead of a brand new one, due to the loss of value when you drive a new one off the lot.

Then, I realized there was a big info-gap I left you in.

So, you might be interested in this “buying a vehicle 101″ before deciding on any used vehicle.

So – here goes:  Usually you will want to choose a vehicle between 3-5 years old, with low mileage, under 40,000 is a good number. That means it’s only been driven approximately 10,000 miles a year – pretty good rate.Now, before you even go to look at a vehicle, check the approximate price at www.kbb.com – the good old Kelly Blue Book! At least it will give you a guideline and…. Hey! There’s another great freebie!!!

Okay – you’ve heard about a vehicle or seen it advertised in the paper on online.

Walk up to the car, stand at the rear and see it the tires line up front and back – if the vehicle looks like the tires are heading one way and the body of the vehicle is heading a bit left or right, it probably means the vehicle has been in an accident. Question the owner about that.

Check the tires – the old bit of putting a penny in the groove and not being able to see Lincoln’s hair is a pretty good way to judge how many miles are left on the tires before you’ll have to replace them. Physically run your hands around the tires – make sure there are no places where the “rubber” is gone and the threads are exposed.

Now – it’s time to look inside. First you’re going to check the back seat: Check the carpet – a car with 40,000 miles should be in good condition – if the owners took care of it. If they took care of that, perhaps they were considerate of the whole vehicle. Check the seat condition and make sure the seat belts in the back seat work. Close the back doors – do they close securely without slamming?  Now, you actually get to go to the front seat! Just open the door, don’t get in yet – take a  visual appraisal at everything: How’s the upholstery on the driver’s side? Cigarette holes  – I’ve never found a way to fix those successfully. Is the upholstery excessively worn, especially on the driver’s side?

vehicle

Mexican Taxi

Then question the odometer reading. There is an Internet site you may want to use:  www.carfax.com that gives you a history of the vehicle– but how often do we look at a vehicle then take the time to go home,  run a check and then go back – by then, if the car was good, it’s probably already been sold – so – do what makes you comfortable.

How are the brake pedal look? Just about worn through? Then, has this car been driven aggressively. How’s the gas pedal? Same thing – aggressive driving can be hard on the engine and the whole system. Check the headliner – that’s the material that goes over you head – is it secure? No excessive staining? Does the top interior light work? Both sunshades secure?  Check the front seat – finally, you should get in and sit down.

Ask for the owner for the key. Do a visual check – if the key is really worn off, again question how carefully the owners treated the car and question the mileage. Insert the key, make sure the brake is on, and start the vehicle. See if any warning lights come on – it’s normal for the oil to light up and then instantly go out, as may some of the other warning lights – it’s normal to light for a moment, but then they should all go out. Pay attention to the sound – with low mileage, it should still pretty much sound like a new car – quiet. If it is equipped with a motorized seat, does it work? Is it big enough for you to comfortably enter and to drive? Alternatively, is it small enough? Does the passenger seat have adjustments? Long rides and comfort go hand in hand.

Now, your partner needs to help for this – turn on the lights – headlights, parking lights, brake lights, and all four signal lights – make sure they perform.Check the interior lights – the ceiling light – maybe the glove compartment light. Take your time – don’t get flustered. All of this is important.

Probably long before this, the owner is trying to get your attention on the pretty color – tell them “yes” and proceed with your inspection.

If the windows are automatic, make sure they all work – one motor in one door for the window can be quite expensive – this is from experience. In hot climate, are the windows tinted? Is that in good condition? Are the door handles secure? Check the door locks – make sure they all work.  Check the seat belts – looking sturdy still? Do they lock properly? Are they secured at the proper points or have they been altered?

You still have the vehicle running – it should not have died. Now, with the motor running,  and the car in park, and the brake on, carefully exit the car – make sure to leave the door open so it doesn’t accidentally lock (how embarrassing) and again check under the hood. Everything looking and sounding good? Great!

So, back in the vehicle for a test drive. Turn the car off, then turn it back on. Try to do a test on city streets for the brake testing (when you use the brake, it shouldn’t feel mushy – it should give you a bit of resistance as you push it in) and turning performance and then on a more open road to check pickup speed, quiet ride, whether the steering wheel feels correct and doesn’t shimmy, and the car holds the road (doesn’t pull to one side or the other) and the motor doesn’t stutter. Make sure the windshield wipers work. If there’s a radio, check it out.Air conditioning working properly? You should also turn the heater on – make sure the fan/blower works well. After slowing down – foot off the gas, step on the gas – you shouldn’t see a big cloud of smoke come out of the back – a small one is acceptable, very small.

When you return the car, leave it idling – it should run smoothly. Get out – leave the door open remember – and go to the back – check for smoke again.  Walk to the front – no terrible odors coming from under the hood – like smoke? OK. Get back in and with the brake on, shift through all the options – reverse, 2nd, drive, etc – make sure they all take and there is no clunking noise as you change. In fact, while you are still driving, the gears should change pretty much noiselessly – no clunking accepted.

Presuming the car by now has been sitting in the driveway for several minutes, do a visual under the car. See any oil leaks? The dripping from the air conditioningcondensation is normal. But anything other than water that’s dripping needs checked.Well, now I think I’ve pretty well covered the gamut of checking out a car. Of course, you can ask the seller if you can take the car to a qualified mechanic to have it checked over. That may cost a few bucks, but may be worth it. If you’re lucky, the seller may have all the repair records for you to see. Those may bring up other questions.

So, after going through all of this, if you like the looks of the car and will be satisfied with it, made the seller an offer. Try starting with at least a 15% reduction from what it’s being offered for. You can usually settle with a 10% cut. Of course, if there are obvious faults that you are willing to live with or get fixed, negotiate even further. Just remember – there’s another used car coming up for sale tomorrow.

Well, I’m sure I’ve missed some things, but, this is a good base to start with when you go to look for a used vehicle that you want to last a while. Hope this helps you in saving those pennies!

Vehicle article by Barbie.

1940′s, Memories – Sunrise, Sunset

Posted on : Dec-16-2008 | By : Barbie | In : Just Opinions - good for balance., Musings & Senior Moments

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Memories

During the Holiday seasons, the radio and cd player only play my favorites: Christmas Music – from “Frosty the Snowman”, to “White Christmas”, to “We Three Kings”… and the memories come flooding back…

SEEMS AS THOUGH MY LIFE HAS BEEN A SONG

I sing a lot…no, no, not in front of anyone – I’m typical I think… I sing in the shower – I sing in the car – I basically sing when no one (other than Dick) is around. Thank goodness, Dick is very tolerant! (And I think he has a fabulous voice, the few times I can get him to join along!)

My Uncle Paul was in W.W. II. He and Aunt Alice had two children – right around my sister’s and my age, so we, (my sister Bonnie and I) were closest to those two cousins. I knew there was a war – I remember at two years of age, the day the U.S. joined in – and I knew that the war was major – but, I mainly remember the songs -“There’ll Be Blue Birds Over the White cliffs of Dover”. I remember singing that when I was probably 3 or 4.

I can remember singing with my older sister, Bonnie, when we washed and dried the dishes together years ago.  “Rock of Ages”, helped the time pass doing chores we weren’t fond of doing. We sang “Blue Bird on My Shoulder” from Uncle Remus – we sang church songs – we sang “Jingle Bells” – we sang every song we heard.

We often visited my maternal grandparents “out in the country”… and down the lane.  On one visit, my cousins and I discovered an ancient “Victrola” in my Grandpa Huntsman’s barn. It actually worked after a few cranks and the dusty records stacked there sounded just great – we  thought. Mostly country western songs – neat – Gene Autry and Roy Rodgers among some others.

Some where in my memory is the fact that my sister and I actually made a record – seems like we were in a big town – maybe Columbus, Ohio – maybe it was at a fair…and there was a small building you went into, put coins into a slot, and you could perform and some how be recorded. Of course, we thought we’d be wonderful – however, after about 4 words of the song we picked to have immortalized, we forgot the words – darn. We had that record for years and years – just a lot of “You sing!”, “No! You sing!”. Wonder what ever happened to that?…

Do you remember the song, “Mares eat oats and does eat oats and little lambs eat ivy, a kid will eat ivy too, wouldn’t you?” We always sang it as “marseydoats and doeseydoats and little lamsey divey, a kiddle de divey doo, wouldn’t you?” Words and meaning were pretty unimportant at that age – just the rhythm and tune were good enough to enjoy.

When I was about seven years old, for some reason, my parents decided we were going to move to California – from Ohio.  We did the Route-40 trip across the country in a red Willys Jeep (all metal inside if I remember correctly, other than the seats which were a tan naugahyde) , pulling a trailer – our living quarters for the trip. Across the country – no air conditioning of course, so Daddy bought big blocks of ice, put it right on the floor of the jeep and somehow we managed to drive across the desert.

memories

Barbie and cousins on Grandpa's horse

My Daddy, Bob Ogle, worked for the local Kroger grocery store when we moved back to Ohio. We luckily had a movie theater in town, that my sister and I loved to go to on weekends. In 1950, Disney created the wonderful movie “Cinderella” and we went to see it. Well, being a girly-girl, I fell in love with the beauty of the movie. I remember swinging under the trees at home, on our home-made swing, and since it was fall, the leaves swirled around as I swang back and forth – I felt as though I was Cinderella with the magic dust flying around and I sang Bibbidy Bobbity Boo, at the top of my lungs, for hours on end.

Apparently, Mother and Daddy liked California when we got there, because we ended up living in San Diego for a while – until the Christmas season came. I guess they got homesick – because we moved back to Ohio – and there we stayed. Oh, the songs that goes with that memory?  “Detour, there’s a muddy road ahead, detour…” and of course, “California, Here We Come”. I have a picture of my Daddy working on the roof of our San Diego house, on Boundary Street, and you can see our trailer was parked in back – guess they were keeping a way back to Ohio, just in case.  So, we moved back to Ohio.

Daddy built a one-story, 2-bedroom cement-block home (Including a “John” down the path) for us out in the country, very near (walking distance) to where my Aunt Alice and Uncle Paul had built and lived with my two cousins, and just a couple of miles from Grandma and Grandpa Huntsman, where the Victrola was.

Jump ahead years and years and that little girl grew up – and then, I met Dick, the wonderful man I’ve been married to for 50 years (that never ceases to amaze me – just the length of time – where have the years gone?) “Sunrise, Sunset…”
When we were dating, one night Dick took me to see Nat King Cole. The crooner sang “They try to tell Us We’re Too Young” and it seemed as though he was directing it to us – but, we knew “Our Love Was Here to Stay”, and, only 19 months after we were married, I was singing “Rock-a-bye Baby” to a beautiful, dark haired, healthy miniature of Dick.

Now, the time really starts to fly – “Chiao, Chiao Bambino” turned into “Here Comes Santa Clause”, and then another beautiful little boy, this one tow-headed and the songs continue: “I Love You a Bushel and a Peck”, “The Bear Went Over the Mountain”, “Two and Two Are Four, Four and Four are Eight”……, “On Top of Spaghetti All Covered With Sauce”…, and then the birth of another beautiful little boy, with dark curly hair…and the tunes continue… “I’m Hen-er-ry the Eighth I Am”.

And the eldest is in high school, the middle is in junior high and the youngest is starting school, and we’re singing “ The Razor’s Edge is Cold and It Stings” and “Someone Left the Cake Out In the Rain”, (whatever those songs were about) and Johnny Cash songs, and “Here Comes Santa Clause”, and “Two and Two are Four”, and “On top of Spaghetti”, and “The Bear Went Over the Mountain”…

And then, the Parks Family decides to follow the route of Grandpa and Grandma, just for a vacation. A rare three-week vacation – a once in a life time event! We decide to follow the route my Mother and Daddy had taken years ago, see the same sights – show out kids all the wonders of America – Mount Rushmore, the Corn Palace, the wheat fields, the Arch, the oil fields, the sand dunes, the Petrified Forest, Pikes Peak, Las Vegas, and the Golden Gate… and so we slide into “California Here We Come”… and “Detour”, the second time around…

Then, somehow, we got through high school graduations, beginning college, college diplomas, new jobs, kids moving away, moving to Kentucky, learning of Blue Grass and cloggers, barbeque and burgoo, then moving on to Louisiana with their Zydeco and Cajun, and the fabulous food of that area.  Then, on to discover the beauty of Mexico and Spanish music and the exciting Flamenco!

“The Falling Leaves Drift by My Window”…Now, in retirement, it seems as though we’ve come full circle. In our home, oldie-moldies play most of the day – the car plays our favorite oldie-moldies- Bing Crosby, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, Gene Autry, Roy Rodgers -we sing to them all. When we drive in our car to visit the tow-head, who now lives in California – yep – we sing.

Memories article by Barbie.